Freedom is a thing that everyone always wants to do.
But we know also if freedom may be a
good action or not. The action is sometimes excessive among adolescents and
adults. It concerns about drugs,
alcohol, and free sex that may result bad in the future, etc. Especially, it
focus to adolescents who needs to care
more than we know from their parents. We have to respond and take a serious
action if the adolecents have been done devitions. How ever, to protect is
better than not at all. It has action why adolecents may do deviations, that’s
about a relationship among adolecents to parents.
At first, because the parents don’t pay attention to
their adolescents cause they are too busy doing works and perhaps no time to
communicate so that will be miss understanding among them. So, adolescents will
feel less ignored and in fact it may count largely ignored by them. The second,
it is important for us to keep them as older people, although we don’t make
much time together, but it is so rich on thinking of odolescents for themself.
When the parents are so far with their odolescents, it will be made a chance to
look for a way by themself without thinking again. After that, they may make
not only a mistake but also a freedom without rules. This is very dangerous
situation even adolecents grow to be grown up.
As we know, even adolescents are done a relationship
outside the home with others. parents seldom care with their adolescents who
make a friendship to others. Probably, the others may affect characters of them
so that it will made deviations by itself. It doesn’t mean to ban them for
doing a friendship cause we realize about a deviation is known so difficult for
us when going outside . Either parents or adolescents need to keep in touch so
that make sure the parents if they are already to do anything without worrying
bad things will be happened. So, parents should be given time to them moreover
when adolescents need somebody to talk, they will be reached out parents first
as space where to express their feelings even parents really do.
Written By : Deddy
Mus Heryanto
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